Matthew, Chelsea, and Baby Scarlett

Labor of Love

2011-04-15T15:21:00.000-07:00

   So tonight Scarlett Belle is 3 weeks old. I can't believe it! Time is flying by and somehow we are all surviving. Scarlett is a complete joy to be around. Instead of sleeping while she is sleeping, I find myself staring at her! I can't help but look at all her tiny features and think of what a wonderful blessing she is in our lives. We are in love!

   The Birth . . .

   I figure I should write the birthing story down before I forget! So here it goes . . . Scarlett's due date of March 21st came and went with no excitement except for another routine OB appointment. I hadn't been dilated previously and was praying that I might be a little dilated at this appointment so that I could have my membranes stripped. Sure enough, I was dilated to a little less than a one but it was just enough for the nurse practitioner to get in there and swipe the membranes. It was pretty painful and I ended up feeling crampy the rest of the day; however, I didn't feel like it really would do much since I had read so many stories of how stripped membranes didn't do anything for other women.

   Two more days came and went . . . On Thursday March 24th I woke up around 5:30 a.m. to what felt like menstrual cramps. They were pretty uncomfortable to the point where I couldn't sleep but I didn't say anything to Matthew since my NP had told me that cramps are NOT contractions. Matthew left for school at 8:00 a.m. and at 8:15 a.m. I started to think these cramps came pretty regularly and close together. I called Matthew and told him he should come home but he thought this might just be in my head. Me crying and hanging up the phone gave Matthew enough conviction to come home and take me to the hospital. We arrived at the hospital around 9:30 a.m. and I thought I was going to look so silly to the nurses because I probably wasn't having contractions. Wrong! I was having contractions and they were coming 2-4 minutes apart. They made me walk around the hospital for 45 minutes (mind you, my right hip was hurting me severely) to see if I would dilate anymore. Unfortunately, after a painful walk, I hadn't progressed much at all and they sent me home saying it could be another week! Ah!

  We get back home around 12:00 p.m. and I decide to take a hot bath. I continue to have contractions 2-4 minutes apart as we begin to watch the NCAA BYU basketball game. Since the doctor told me it could be another week I let my parents know they don't need to come up and they book a flight for the next day. So I continue to have contractions while watching the basketball game and with 5 minutes left in the game I go to the bathroom. And . . . my water BREAKS! (This is at 6:30 p.m.) I was a little confused thinking maybe I just peed but then realized I had no control over the liquid so it must has been my water breaking. I yell to Matthew who is intensely watching the end of the basketball game and he replies with, "Can we wait? There is just three minutes left in the game!" Wrong answer. The contractions instantly got worse and I told Matthew we had to leave now for the hospital.

  Through stormy weather Matthew speeds to the hospital. We arrive in Labor and Delivery at 7:15 p.m. and I am starting to be in some serious pain (I am now dilated to a four) and ask for an epidural. The nurse tells me they will get it to me by 9:00 p.m.! What?! There was no way I could wait that long! Luckily a wonderful nurse, Linore, steps in to replace the previous nurse and she attempts to save the day. At this point contractions are a minute apart! Linore gets me hooked up with an IV and calls for the anesthesiologist. The anesthesiologist was busy and mean while I am in a tremendous amount of pain! It felt as though I wasn't getting any kind of rest period between contractions and they were so painful I was hunched over to one side gripping the side bar and Matthew's hand, balling my eyes out. WORST. PAIN. EVER! Finally the anesthesiologist comes in around 8:30 p.m. and kicks Matthew out of the room. For some reason she had a No-husbands-allowed policy. The anesthesiologist had a lot of trouble getting the epidural in and finally by 9:00 p.m. she had gotten it! When the epidural finally kicked in at 9:15p.m. Linore checked to see how dilated I was and she laughs and says, "I knew that would be a waste of time! You're at a 10!" What?! I was stunned! None of our family or friends had even had time to get to the hospital yet and to top it all off my parents were on an airplane flying here and wouldn't land until 10:30 p.m.! Matthew was so excited and ready for me to push but I asked Linore if there was a way I could wait a little bit. She said I could and let the baby labor down. So we waited until 10:30 p.m. when family and friends had arrived and I could talk to my mom on the phone. I told her I couldn't wait any longer and I was going to push. I hung up the phone and it was go time! I started pushing around 10:45 p.m. and at 11:11 p.m. Scarlett Belle Abinante was born. When she came out both Matthew and I were able to lift her up onto my chest. It felt like a dream. I couldn't believe what was happening. Scarlett came out crying and looking everywhere. Her eyes were so wide and they stayed open and alert for hours afterward. I cried. Matthew cried. Scarlett cried. We were all emotional! It was the best day of my life.

On our way to the hospital . . .

Look how close those contractions are!

Serious pain!

Mmmmm epidural . . .

Talking to my mom on the phone right before Scarlett is born.

Baby Scarlett

7 lb 10 oz and 19 inches of pure joy!

Looking up at Daddy for the first time . . .

She was all about sticking her tongue out those first few hours.

First look.

My Dad and Mom (Papa and Mimi) arrived 30 minutes after Scarlett was born.

Auntie Bez holding Scarlett.

The best nurse ever! Linore!

Our first family photo!

Auntie Brittney is in love . . .

Daddy and Scarlett all worn out.

The Kenney's.

Grumpa!

Putting on Scarlett's first outfit to leave the hospital.

So tiny!

Goodbye hospital food!

Baby Scarlett is Here!

2011-04-01T14:49:00.000-07:00

Scarlett Belle Abinante

Born March 24, 2011

7 lb 10 oz and 19 inches long

Baby Shower

2011-02-18T13:16:00.000-08:00

Last week we had two baby showers. One in San Diego and one up here in Vallejo. Both were fabulous! Everyone was so generous and you could feel a lot of love for little Scarlett already.

An enormous amount of effort went into these showers; however, I know specifically that the Vallejo shower had been given months of planning and prepping from Beverly Velasco and Chelsea Suafoa. These girls really know how to throw a party! They could start a business! They went with pink and green colors themed throughout the shower. I almost felt bad walking in and wearing blue and orange!

Everything was gorgeous! Words cannot explain how grateful I am for such wonderful friends who care so much to work as hard as they did to celebrate a wonderful occasion.

The trees blossomed outside the Velasco home with these gorgeous pink flowers, which went perfectly with the pink and green theme!

It was no surprise that the food was absolutely fantastic! All of may favorites were served: pumpkin waffles with homemade cinnamon syrup, pasta salad, hawaiian fruit salad, bacon, quiche, and shrimp cocktail.

Oh and the dessert bar was to die for! So many fabulous sweets and the presentation was so gorgeous, it looked as if it belonged in a Martha Stewart magazine!

It was such a wonderful day I didn't want it to ever end! Too bad Scarlett didn't want to come that night to top it off!

And of course a blog post wouldn't be complete without a recent prego photo! This was taken at the 35 week marker. Almost there!

Geez I look tired in this picture . . . And I really don't know how my belly got this large!

Update! Update! Update!

2011-01-11T20:56:00.000-08:00

Matthew and I had a wonderful time celebrating Christmas in San Diego and New Years in Sacramento with our family. We more than enjoyed the warm weather in San Diego and was surprised to find how cold it had gotten up in Northern California! Luckily our fireplace works really well.

What has occupied my time the most is a new business I have started. I have started to make headbands and beanies for young girls. The business is called the Lil' Sugar Bowtique and I first launched it with etsy: www.lilsugarbowtique.etsy.com

While in San Diego I had my dad take photos of some of our products on two gorgeous little girls. Let's just say that a photo shoot with a two-year-old and four-year-old is EXTREMELY challenging!

Headbands quickly became so popular that I had adults requesting them for themselves so here I am, a week after opening, crocheting headbands for both child and adult. I love staying busy with the business and look forward to new orders!

On the pregnancy front . . . I am now 30 weeks pregnant and feeling it! I am so large I can barely bend over to pick up anything off the ground, the heartburn is unbearable, and I have to keep myself from waddling!
However, 30 weeks is a ton of fun because now Scarlett has less room and we can see and feel her little hands, feet, and bum sticking out. Oh and feeling her hiccup is a blast! She definitely gets the hick ups often just like her mama!

Cruisin' Mexico (Part 2)

2010-12-21T16:09:00.000-08:00

After Cabo we got back on the ship and went out to see from Thursday afternoon until Saturday morning, arriving back in San Diego. Our whole trip was filled with amazing weather and we got to see dolphins and whales as we cruised; however, the last day at see was windy and cold making the ship rock so hard that we couldn't even stand to sit through a nice dinner and had to return to our room before little miss prego could throw up! We attempted to go into the pool since it looked as though you could surf in it from the big waves being created by the enormous rocking. The sun did come out for a couple hours and I was able to complete my tan but needless to say we were more than happy to get off the ship Saturday morning!
Here are a few extra photos I couldn't fit on the last post:

A nice dinner on the ship.

My dinner!

Matthew's dinner!

Baked Alaska on FIRE!

This is what Matthew did on the ship the whole time: study!

This is what I did the whole time on the cruise!

We loved the animal towels that appeared in our bedroom every night.

Matthew pretending to be an elephant . . .

This monkey animal towel scared us when we walked into our room!

Cruisin' Mexico

2010-12-21T12:32:00.000-08:00

Saturday December 4th we headed off for a much needed vacation. We drove into San Diego, spent the night at my parent's house and then boarded the Holland America cruise ship. This was our first cruise so everything felt new! The ship took off at 5:00 p.m. on Saturday and we were at sea until Tuesday morning, arriving in Mazatlan.

Mazatlan was probably the most rural of our three destinations but it was different and beautiful. We first took a tour of the city with a crazy taxi driver and then got dropped off at a "ferry terminal" to take a boat to Stone Island where we heard we could find the best beach. The "ferry terminal" was nothing but a little stand and tiny boats where NO ONE spoke a bit of English. We get onto the boat and the person managing the boat says something in Spanish followed by everyone immediately putting life jackets on. We followed suit and prayed that the tiny boat would not sink! Stone Island was even more rural and as soon as we stepped onto the island we felt as though we were on a mission.

Mmmmmm coconuts!

The day ended with shrimp tacos and enchiladas and we didn't even get sick!

On Wednesday we arrived in Puerta Vallarta. It felt like Spain with all the art work and cobblestone streets. We spent the first half of the day walking around old town and going to the Cathedral, which was gorgeous! We went through a little market where tons of people tried to sell to us with every line you could think of. We bought fresh Vanilla and a cute little baby girl dress. Haggling became a team effort!

The second half of our day is such a long story that it would take up pages and pages to tell but to give a quick synopsis: We were tricked into going to a nice resort where we were pressured to buy a time share and given disgusting food. A big waste of three hours but lesson learned!

On Thursday we arrived in Cabo San Lucas, our favorite place! This is where we spent our honeymoon 3 1/2 years ago! It was so fun to go back here. It was nice because we knew the town and no one could trick us into anything! When we arrived we walked over to the beach in the heat and plopped ourselves at a restaurant on the beach where we got to lay out under umbrellas and have virgin pina coladas and fresh guacamole. The best part for Matthew was that he got free wireless internet and was able to download school lectures! After finishing up there we went swimming in the perfect water; not too cold and not too hot. Matthew was in a panic the whole time because there were little fish following his feet and he was afraid they were going to bite him. I fell in love with swimming while pregnant! We ended the day at our favorite restaurant, Squid Roe. We loved going back to the fun restaurant that we enjoyed so much 3 1/2 years earlier!

Pop!

2010-12-03T09:02:00.000-08:00

With Christmas around the corner I am starting to not sleep as well at night thinking we are quickly approaching March! It's only 3 months away! And just to increase how quickly the time is flying by we are leaving tomorrow for a 7-day Mexican Riviera cruise. This will be our first cruise and I am getting kind of nervous . . . what if the ship crashes or something! And I don't know how I am going to feel about being in the middle of the ocean . . . this will definitely be a new experience! After the cruise I will stay in San Diego and Matthew will return to the Bay Area for a week to finish up the semester at school and then join us for Christmas. So time is really going to fly by!
Little Scarlett kicks all the time and even wakes me up in the middle of the night. Matthew and I love seeing my belly move, it's lots of fun! We went to the doctor a couple days ago and she said everything looked great. She measured my belly and listened for the heartbeat and said everything is exactly on track. Perfect!
To top this all off I have noticed that I have completely POPPED in the last week! My belly really looks big and there is absolutely no hiding this soccer ball under my shirt.

24 weeks

Baby Joys

2010-11-04T11:57:00.000-07:00

With all the excitement of seeing the baby on the ultrasound two weeks ago and discovering we are expecting a little girl, family has been quick to donate many gifts already! Here are some of the things we have gotten for the baby . . . it's funny how these things make me so happy! I guess it makes it feel more real to have a bunch of baby goodies. Even though I am 20 1/2 weeks along (halfway through) this baby could not get here quick enough! Once Christmas is over time will fly by and the baby will be here before you know it! And then the real fun begins . . .

Cute Anthropologie Clothes!

Petunia Pickle Bottom Diaper Bag!

The Bugaboo Frog Stroller!!!

I could not be more excited to be a mom! I enjoy every moment with our baby girl and love sitting around to feel her roll and kick in my belly. She has a strong punch now and there is no mistaking it. Matthew and I had tons of fun feeling her kick last night and at one point she kicked so hard Matthew got all emotional and said, "I think I'm going to cry!" He is going to be done for when he is in the delivery room! I have a feeling he will be balling his eyes out when she is born . . . so cute!

Boy Girl Boy Girl Boy Girl?!

2010-10-24T21:59:00.000-07:00

At 18 1/2 weeks we took the whole family to see a 3D/ 4D ultrasound of the baby so we could all discover the sex of the baby together. Our original plan was to go to Fetal Imaging in San Francisco at 5:00 p.m. and then have dinner at Ciappino's; however, at 2:00 p.m. Fetal Imaging calls me to tell me that their power has gone out due to the stormy weather and they will let me know by 3:00 p.m. if they can get it back on. Well with the unreliability of this situation and with my parents in town only for the weekend and Matthew's parents two hours away from San Francisco I needed to figure out something fast! Matthew and I quickly searched for another ultrasound place and landed upon A Little Insight located in Vacaville. They were so wonderful and let us come in at 4:00 p.m. to get the ultrasound done. So it all worked out perfectly! I LOVED the place and LOVED the ultrasound technician! She definitely knew what she was doing and even though we only paid for a 15 minute ultrasound she went on for 40 minutes!!! And she gave us extra pictures! You could just tell she loved her job, which made a huge difference. I would definitely recommend them to anyone! She was able to figure out the sex instantly! As soon as she started the ultrasound she said she knew what the sex was. I was so impressed!
Baby Abinante is a . . . GIRL!!!!!

She kept trying to eat the placenta! So Cute!

Life in the Abinante Home

2010-10-20T11:25:00.000-07:00

    Matthew is now in his second year in medical school, which is said to be the hardest. Matthew will have his first set of Board Exams in June, has now been called as Elders Quorum President at church and on top of it all we have a baby due March 21st, a couple weeks before Matthew's finals! This year will test us tremendously but we will survive . . . somehow.
   This week will prove to be full of excitement as we have an appointment this Friday at 5:00 to have a 3D/ 4D ultrasound with the whole family to see if the baby is a boy or a girl! I felt like it would take forever to get to this point but here we are already! Amazing! I guess time will continue to fly, despite the ongoing feeling that March is so incredibly far away.
   This week I have had many body aches and felt tremendous growth. I feel as though there is no more room for any more growth and yet I still have 21 weeks left! I feel so tight already and my stomach itches all the time, this really is an out of body experience. The highlight of the past two weeks is feeling the baby move . . . it is tough because I will have moments of doubt and think the movement I feel is just gas or stomach growls but then I realize that my intestines are not that low and in front of my belly anymore so really the only explanation is the baby! It feels like a few little bubbles rising. It is so fun to feel! Poor Matthew wants to feel the baby move so badly but the kicks are not hard enough to feel with your hand. The baby seems to love apple juice and loves it when I am about to fall asleep. I go to sleep feeling the baby and I wake up feeling the baby and then throughout the day it is just random movements; however, I have noticed the baby always seems to move around 5:00 p.m., which is perfect since our 4D ultrasound will be at 5:00 p.m. and we should be able to get a good dance from him/her.
So here is a visual of my growth pattern (We forgot to take a picture at 15 Weeks):

                                                                        9 Weeks

10 Weeks

11 Weeks

12 Weeks

13 Weeks

14 Weeks

16 Weeks

17 Weeks

18 Weeks

How to Blog

2010-10-08T16:04:00.000-07:00

So I am sitting here on the comfy couch, 4 months pregnant, off of work, with the house clean, and wondering . . . "Maybe I should blog." What a novel idea coming from a little Mormon girl! I have finally remembered the e-mail and password to edit this blog so I can get to work. But blogging is so difficult (if you want it to look cute) and I really have no clue what I am doing. How do all these girls make such cute and interesting blogs? What are their secrets?! I can't even get our names to be centered on the picture at the top of the blog. Slowly but surely I will learn but this is a serious process. Who knew it would be so difficult to update the world on your life?

A Review of August 2007-August 2009

2009-10-07T13:39:00.005-07:00

As I said earlier, I do knot know how to blog, and to top it all off we have had this blog since May 2007 and there are only a hand full of posts . . . sad, I know.

So here is the picture book review:

The Wedding
August 17, 2007

The New Puppy: Rocky
May 2008

Chelsea Doesn't Know How to Blog

2009-10-07T12:25:00.005-07:00

Okay so someone needs to teach me how to blog because I would love to make our blog cute and attractive like every other Mormon girl's blog but I just have no idea how to do it . . . So give me some tips!!

Alright, so it is time for me to give everyone an update on our lives . . .

After graduating from Brigham Young University in April 2009 Matthew and I moved to the Bay Area so Matthew could attend medical school at Touro University. I immediately got a job with Anova Education, working in an early interventions program with two to 5-year-old autistic children. In June 2009 we purchased a home and spent the whole summer remodeling it from top to bottom. This was the ultimate test of marriage. We ripped out everything . . . When I say everything I really do mean it . . . we even ripped out walls! Here are some pictures . . .

So here we are in the middle of a renovation and I decided to audition for a show . . . I was cast as the lead in The Canterville Ghost. The show opens next week on October 15th and runs until November 1st . . . the stress of the show is killing me!
If you are interested in seeing the show let me know or visit www.bayareastage.org and you can purchase tickets online!

2009-03-15T20:23:00.000-07:00

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Snowman

2009-02-02T21:52:00.002-08:00

So . . . I had never built a snowman before so when Taylor came into town with his girlfriend, we all spontaneously built this beaut.

It is a girl in case you can't tell.

My Birthday

2008-11-23T09:03:00.000-08:00

So November 9th was my birthday. . . We went to dinner with our best friends, The Farrell's. We went to Red Robin and ate a lot of food! It was a great time!

Chelsea told me that she didn't get me a cake. . . . I was bummed. Then the Farrell's brought my cake! It was my favorite, Pralines and Cream ice cream with white cake from Baskin Robbins. I'm not quite sure why she got batman on it . . .but it was great! She is a wonderful wife!

Poll

2008-10-09T07:03:00.001-07:00

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Photo Montage

2008-09-28T10:29:00.006-07:00

Things are good here. .Just thought we would throw up a few pics from the past year.

Hope all is well! We would love to hear from you!

Rocky

2008-09-07T17:44:00.002-07:00

So . . .we don't have a baby but we have a new addition to our family. We sure love him!

We have had some accidents though. . .sometimes in places that we would rather not have them happen. . . .

We got married. . . . over 1 year ago!

2008-09-07T17:39:00.003-07:00

Well. . We have been married . . . I know there have been a lot of you reading this and wondering if we ever got married. . .it is true. We have been married over a year now and have yet to make a post. We will try to keep this up a little bit more. . .We are very happy and love all of our friends and family and the support that they have given us! We love school and we are having a great life!

We have a dog now. . .he has a loose tooth and is hyper but we love him.

Take our survey above and tell us whether or not this blog is even worth it. . .

Stratford-Upon-Avon and Les Miserables

2007-06-11T05:48:00.000-07:00

It is now winding down to the last few days of the London Study Abroad program and I have to admit that a large part of me is very excited for the end!!!!
Last Monday my friends and I made our THIRD attempt to get tickets to the famous Les Miserables (the longest running musical). Everyone and their dog has seen this musical and my friends were determined to get me to the show since I had never seen it before. We arrived at the ticket office at 5:45 p.m. before the show was to begin at 7:30 p.m. If you come an hour before the show you can get very discounted tickets if the show is not already sold out! So this was our third time trying to get discounted tickets since we had been in London. The first time we attempted the show ended up selling out and the second time we tried it happened to be an English Holiday which mean there would be no discounted tickets sold for a week! So we were really hoping to get tickets this time! When we arrived the ticketers told us that they would not be selling tickets until 6:30p.m. and that the show would probably be sold out by then . . . we were so upset because we didn't want to be rejected three times. So we waited in the box office taking pictures of each other being sad and we continued to talk about how badly we wanted the tickets. I think the ticketers eventually got really sick of our sad faces waiting in the box office because at 6:00 p.m. he called us over and told us he had tickets for us at a student price. These tickets ended up being in the fourth row! It was such luck!!! The show was absolutely amazing! It was the best musical I have ever seen in my life! At the end of the show the whole audience is balling their eyes out!

Last Wednesday our program took a coach up to Stratford-Upon-Avon for a few days to tour Shakespeare's birthplace and see two beautiful productions done by the Royal Shakespeare Company. On our way to Stratford we stopped by Warrick Castle which is a famous old castle that has been turned into this medival theme park where we got to see little shows of archery and mideval birds. The castle was gorgeous and huge! It was so fun to climb up to the top of one of the towers and look down on all the little people!

We all stayed in Bed and Breakfast's that were so cute but really difficult when being accomadating to a girl's grooming! Whitney and my blow dryer did not work in the plugs for some reason which kept us from getting to do our hair for two days! It was horrible! On top of that, the shower had to be turned on by a power switch and I either had the choice of showering in ice cold water or boiling hot water. There was no median. During my whole shower I would turn the dial back and forth from cold to hot and finally by the time I was finished with my shower the water became a perfect temperature . . . which was useless by that time!

On our way back from Stratford we stopped in Oxford for a couple hours to tour the town and the university. It was a beautiful town with a lot of history! Oxford University was amazing! The campus looks like a castle in itself! Connected to the University is Christ's Church which is a very old castle like building that has the famous "great hall" where Harry Potter was filmed! Unfortunately we could not go inside Christ's Church because it was the day of naming the new Bishop. If only we had been there the day before!

This week will go by fast since it is filled with studying for finals and taking finals! Luckily I have home to look forward to at the end of the week and I absolutely cannot wait! Most people up here want to stay in Europe and travel but I cannot help how much I miss my family and Matthew!

Londres . . .

2007-06-01T10:42:00.001-07:00

Well after a weekend in Paris there isn't anything more exciting to tell about my time up here in Europe!
The week started out cold and rainy which was scary since there were two out-door shows we had to see this weekend. Luckily, it has miraculously become sunny and warm! Which means markets and parks for us all day long! Yesterday we went to the Borough market to get the best fruit and chocolate covered nuts and dried fruit! So amazing! Two nights ago we went on the Jack-the-Ripper tour and we were given a two hour walk with lots of history and neat buildings in Whitechapel (a very poor area of London). The tour was a little spooky since we went to all the sights of the murders from Jack-the-Ripper but the history behind the infamous man was very fun!
My good friend Tara who goes to school in Scotland has finally joined us in our fun for the last two weeks of London. She shows us around and since she works at an amazing pizza restauraunt we can all go get food there for 20% off! Which is so helpful when you are a poor student!
Today we went to a theatre to get cheap tickets to the World's Longest Running Show: Mousetrap! I am really excited to see it! Our tickets are in the back row but that's what you get when you ask for the cheapest seats in the house! After we got tickets for tonights show we walked over to Oxford Circus which is like 5th Avenue in New York! It was packed with people and was a little too chaotic for me! I ended up getting one very cute shirt for the hot summer which was exciting because students at the department stores there get 10% off! Yay! The H&M is so amazing! They have 3 H&Ms on the same street!!!! And they are all 3 stories high! haha! Then there is this London shop (very similar to H&M but better) called The Top Shop where they have every bit of clothing you can think of at really good prices! They even have a nail salon in the store! It was really fun to see the store but there were so many people there that I was constantly losing my friend Whitney which was so scary because the store is huge!!!!! I felt like a little child losing my mother in Nordstrom! (Which happened once or twice with my mom).
Tomorrow is going to be an exciting day because we will be celebrating our friend Brittlyn's 20th birthday! We will start out the day by going early to the famous Portabello market where I am going to get souveniers for everyone!! Then we will be going to the very famous Orangery where they serve tea (herbal, they pronounce the 'H' here) and cake at Kensington Palace! Then we will end the day with the best ice cream and a performance of The Merchant of Venice at the famous Globe Theatre! It is going to be a day full of very famous things!

Rainy night!

2007-05-29T06:35:00.000-07:00

Well. . . I don't have any pictures from today. . .sorry! You will just have to use your imagination. . .

Benjie started blaring Prison Break this morning in our room so that was what I woke up to. . haha. . .He is addicted! I got really cold last night which was fine by me. I slept closer to the aircon which made a big difference! Felt good. . . What didn't feel good is the red color going on in the facial area and on the back and shoulders. Everytime I move I remember just how long it has been since my chest has seen the sun! I spent a little too much time in the sun on Mindoro (only like 3 hours) and now I am feeling it. . .The worst is trying to put my shirt on. I grunt and really struggle to get it on. .it is a blessing when it finally gets on though! hehe. We tried to play tennis this morning. I was up 3-1 on Benjie but he came up on me and killed me. . . I was not having a good day. I have this really big sore on my toe and it looks like I have this big infection on it. ..I think it is just a blister that developed and popped on my beach run yesterday.

Tonight we went back to Divisoria to buy some things. We looked forever for neckties . . .I am glad we finally found some though. I was really pleased with what I got though! I think everyone back at home will like what I got them too. . .

After a quick Halo-Halo (mix-mix) at ChowKing we were on our way back. There were soooo many people! I just laughed when I looked at all the people! It is amazing! We got on a jeepney, then the train. When we got off the train to get on an FX (like an SUV converted into a 11 person transport vehicle) it was raining like crazy. Thunder lightning and everything made me quickly remember how hard it can rain here! I haven't seen rain like that for so long! Well. . .I haven't seen rain like that since I left the Philippines! It was amazing. The roads the whole way home were flooded and the FX couldn't drive down the road in front of Benjie's house as the water was up to my calves on the sidewalk! We had to get off on the other side of the block and trudge through the flood and rain to get home.

I am having such a great time here! I have a lot to do this week. A lot of things that I wanted to do are getting cancelled and postponed for another visit to the Pearl of the West.

Mindoro

2007-05-28T16:08:00.000-07:00

I'm not really in the mood to go into a lot of detail about my trip but I will try.

Benjie, the Gagua family and myself decided to head out to Mindoro. After church we changed and got on a bus. After a 3 hour bus ride we went on a small boat for a little over an hour. It was beautiful to see all the islands around. I could see how there could be over 7,000 islands! Just from my little perspective I saw probably 8 or so different islands. We got to the island and just kind of hung out. The room was nice. It was big but just had a dresser, small table, 2 chairs and two beds. The aircon was very nice to have though!

I got up early the next day and went running on the beach. That was fun. . . I was very hot and ready to go swimming when I got back. We went down and jumped in the nice blue water. Everything was expensive here and we payed for the Gagua's. . .needless to say my money ran out very quickly. I budget $100 and we ran out of that really quick! Just to pay volleyball for an hour had a price! We were planning to stay for 2 days but I ran out of money and so we just stayed one day.

The ride home took over 7 hours and the bus was tight and I was sunburned. . .not a good combo. I also got a blister on my toe which is killing! I had a good time but don't know if the Gagua's did . . .I didn't hear anything from them if they did or didn't. . . .a little disappointing. Then later that night I found out that they have been saving for the trip . . . they didn't pay a dime though! Oh well. . .I had a good time! I don't think my future trips will include bringing families on vacations! hehe. Live and learn. I hope they enjoyed theirselves. . .only time will tell.

Life is good. I am sunburned and frustrated being away from Chelsea. We get to talk occasionally when I call her but it is never long enough for us to talk about how we are doing. Oh well. Under 1 month to go. Hard to believe I only have 1 week left here. I have so much to do this week before I leave. I haven't even had a chance to go visit members from other wards. Pretty crazy.

Bonjour Paris!

2007-05-27T10:45:00.000-07:00

Bonjour! I spent the past four days in Paris being the ultimate tourist with a map in one hand and a museum pass in the other. If I were to give a synopsis of my whole weekend it would take pages and pages of this blog so here is the condensed version:
As soon as we arrived we checked into our hotel which was the cheapest hotel you could find in Paris but it did the job. Then we raced over to see the Arc De Triumph which is a huge arc right in the middle of the city and there we bought our 4 day museum pass that allowed us to get into every museum and site in Paris (except for the Eiffel Tower). These four days were filled with non-stop walking and my feet still hurt!!! We were able to go to the Louvre where we saw the Mona Lisa, the Venus statue and Napoleon's Apartments . . . along with many other things there. It was amazing! On our way to the Louvre we found a bakery (one of MANY) and got a croissent for breakfast. It was by far the best croissent I had ever had in my life and Whitney and I were hooked! Everyday we ate at least 3 croissents which were in all different flavors! My favorite was the chocolate almond one! Amazing! Whitney and I also fell in love with their crepes and ice cream!!! We definitely ate our way through Paris but we needed the "nutrience" since we were walking everywhere!!!
We of course went to the top of the Eiffel tower which was quite a feet for me since I am afraid of heights! There are three levels on the Eiffel tower and as we slowly creeped up to the top on the elevator my heart was falling into my stomach and I was holding onto Whitney for dear life! Once we were at the top I let go of the fear and had a great time! Someone was proposed to up there right beside us which was really cute but made me miss Matthew that much more!
On Friday we took a trip to Versailles where the huge palace and gardens are . . . it was unbelievable! The Palace itself was as big as BYU campus! It was so fun to see Marie Antoinette's apartments! We then walked out to the gardens which really is not a garden . . . it is more like a back yard the size of Disneyland! It was gorgeous!!! We had so many things we wanted to see in the gardens and the walks were torturous up and down stone steps under a 95 degree sun scourching us! We were sweating like crazy from the heat! At one point we decided to rent a row boat that was available on the lake in the garden (when I say lake, I mean a perfectly squared "cross-like" deep pool the size of Jackson lake!). It was insane! Since it was only Whitney, Peter, and I and Whitney and I are girls . . . Peter rowed the boat. Poor guy: he rowed this boat in terrible heat on a lake and he was dripping sweat!! While he was doing this Whitney was reading a book at one end while I was being the back seat driver telling Peter where to go! Haha it was pretty fun! The best part of the lake were the adorable baby swans we were able to get really close to!
On our last day we spent the morning at Notre Dame. Our museum pass allowed us to ender the staircase section which was appoximately 700 stairs leading up to the very top of The Notre Dame! It was a tough hike but so worth it! Right when we got to the top it reached noon and all the bells went off which was very surprising and exciting!
By the end of our trip both Whitney and I were more than ready to return to London. Although Paris is gorgeous it is dirty and very difficult to get around due to the lack of English! We were worn out by the end of the weekend and had enough of museums, walking walking walking, and French! However, we do wish we could bring the bakeries with us!

Wedding and a drive

2007-05-26T16:56:00.000-07:00

Another day gone by and no word from Chelsea. . .this is beginning to be more than I can handle. I am taking off today after church for Mindoro Island and will be gone for 3 days. I guess we will just catch up when I get back.

I recently was able to attend a wedding that Benjie sang at. It wasn't easy with thoughts of my own wedding quickly approaching. I don't even know if that is going through though! 4 days of no contact who knows where my fiance is! It was a nice reception. It always makes me so happy to see a couple here married in the temple. It gives me assurance that the church is getting ever stronger here. I had a funny experience with that about a week ago. One of the girls that we found here, part of the Quitiquit family was texting me when I first got here. I was telling them how happy I was that they got baptized and are still strong in the church. I told her that when she finds someone that she needs to tell me and that I would come to her temple marriage. I was surprised when I got her response that she would tell me but didn't want a temple marriage but just wanted a simple wedding! I am guessing she just doesn't know about how special a temple marriage is. The next time I saw her we had a good talk! hehe

Anyways. . the wedding was good. . .it was different but good. There were only 3 bachelors there and whoever caught the envelope with a green ribbon thrown by the groom, they put the garter on the bride's maid. I was so glad I didn't get that!

Benjie made me an awesome meal yesterday of crab, jumbo shrimp and mussels. It was amazing! While Benjie may look like a mean killer here he is really a nice person!

Yesterday Benjie's family left and left their truck behind. . . So . . .we have wheels now! I was a little shakey with the manual transmission and the tinted windows. . .at night. . . and with crazy people running into the road on foot and bikes and such. .. . Benjie was really scared (I was a little. .. I guess) but we made it! I have wanted to drive here for a long time and it was exciting! I couldn't really see everything with the deep tints on the windows but we made it!

Well. . . we are heading to church and then off for Mindoro!

Divisoria!

2007-05-24T20:03:00.000-07:00

Yesterday we went to Divisoria again. . this time with the intention to buy souvenirs. As soon as I got to the mall called, 168 I was not in the mood to buy. There were way too many people! The sidewalks would be room enough for one person and there were at least 3 trying to squeeze past. It was awesome! At one point there was a truck trying to pull out of a warehouse and there was no way it was going anywhere so we had to squeeze behind it . . .I am so grateful he didn't back up when we were back there. . .

That morning the 6 of the elders came over from the Quezon City mission. It was fun to talk to them and make connections. I had actually been a mock investigator for the zone leader back in January of 06 at the MTC. They were a lot of help and we got about 120 letters ready to send out to past patients. We sent referral cards and a questionnaire about how their life has been effected by Mabuhay Deseret. I am hoping to send out about 300 and if I even get a 50% return rate I will be shocked! The elders are going to come back at the end of next week before I take off to help me wrap them up. While they were here we started talking about how I was engaged and about Chelsea. They wanted to see a picture and I happened to have some with me. . . (a real rare occurrence. . . not that I always have her picture with me. . ) When I showed them the picture they were all practically gasping and were telling me that I must have worked really hard on my mission. . . I told them that must have been the trick!

I am having a great time here. I love the people more than ever! I think about Chelsea and my family often. I don't like to think about Chelsea though because I miss her and I usually just get frustrated because she is gone and there is nothing that I can do about it. I keep wishing she was here and I am hoping to come here with her next year. . .she would die if she saw the stores that we went to. I couldn't buy anything for me because I kept thinking about what Chelsea would like. .I hope she likes what I got her!

I am back in the office today sending out faxes to the embassies of something like 30 different countries. Things are not going so well on the fundraising side. I think Filipino countries have a different paradigm when it comes to helping the needy. I absolutely love being here. It is fun to talk to the patients and to do at least a little something to help. We got our discount of 180 pesos per package which is great! Hopefully we can get some donations too. . .Love you all!

Good day at Mabuhay Deseret

2007-05-22T08:05:00.000-07:00

Today was a great day! Things are going well at Mabuhay. We went to a clinic today and took a tour. I was surprised at how nice it was. It had 14 OR's and a lab and everything. The current price for a package of urinalysis, fecalalysis, chest xray and CBC is P395. We think that we are going to be able to work out a deal with them for P200 pesos. This would be huge for the foundation. I worked 9 hours today and plan on really kicking it up these next two weeks. Thursday the Elders from my old zone, Quezon City are going to come over to the foundation and help me put addresses on envelopes to send out to people that were operated on. Great things are happening here.

Here is Benjie's house where he makes me anything I want to eat. . . It feels like I am at a nice restaurant. So much for losing weight while I am here.

We played tennis again tonight. We have been playing about everynight. . . I lost 5-5 6-2. Benjie is a great player. . . That and that I am not very good. . .

I have been really amazed with the shirts here. . they are amazing. . today I saw one that said "if you think I am cute now, wait till you see me naked" haha. They are so funny. I sometimes don't know if they even know what they mean. . .

Hard to believe I only have less than two weeks left. . .I am just trying to make the most of it!

The City of Bath

2007-05-18T03:10:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was filled with lots of excitement and began bright early in the morning . . . we left for the coach station at 6:45 a.m. for our 7:45 bus ride to Bath. For those of you who do not know what Bath is, it is a city three hours outside of London that is filled with history. Their reason for calling the city Bath is due to the Roman Baths placed there centuries ago! These Baths were known to be holy water and people used to travel from all over the world to reach these baths and be healed. The water in these baths come from hot water springs so they naturally feel like a very warm pool! The Roman Baths are like a resort and although a lot of the area has deteriorated it is still in pretty good shape and has so much history in it! It was amazing!
While in Bath we could not skip seeing the famous Jane Austen museum. This museum is placed two doors down from where she lived in Bath. It was very interesting to learn about her life and I bought a copy of 'Pride and Prejudice!' An amazing novel!
We also saw the famous Assembly hall where all the balls were held (just like in Jane Austen's novel) and we looked around in the costume museum where there were many old dresses from Jane Austen's time period.
To top off the day beautifully we went to an amazing ice cream shop that 24 unique flavors. I instantly fell in love with the Creme Brulee flavor and the (very different) cookies n' cream flavor! So I had two scoops in a cone! It was wonderful!
There was plenty more that happened in Bath but this is the short version of our journey. All in all just being in Bath was rewarding. The architecture is amazing! Everything is very old and so historical! The roads were all in cobble stone which definitely did a job on my little feet! By the time we got back to our flat at 10:00 p.m. I was dead but I had to desperately do some laundry so I ended up staying up until 2 am at the laundromat with my friends watching Pride and Prejudice!

Back in the home

2007-05-17T09:03:00.000-07:00

I found myself yesterday in a place that I have been many times. . .President and Sister Labrum invited me over yesterday to chat with them. It was great to see them again! They look the same and we had a great time chatting. They had great food prepared as usual and Benj and I definitely got our fill! We talked with the Labrums and it was fun catching up with them. President said some nice things about me which was nice to hear. . . I was amazed at how well he and Sister Labrum can remember the missionaries. We looked at a really cool book they put together with pictures and letters from all the past missionaries and shared any news we had. It was fun because in the beginning of the book was all the missionaries that have been home the longest. As I went through the book there started to be less and less wedding announcements. After my batch there weren't any! It sounds like their next six weeks are going to be crazy. I hope I get to see them before I go! They are great people!

Things here aren't going quite as I had planned. . . I am really having fun out here and doing good but not quite like I had imagined. I love it here and the place and the people are everything I hoped they would be. . . I think I just put too many expectations on my work with Mabuhay Deseret. It has been difficult finding donors for the foundation and all my attempts to get names and addresses of past patients has been less than successful. I have created a new tactic now though and will be going forward with that starting tomorrow.

Another thing that did not go as planned was my cell phone. I was thinking about getting here and getting an awesome cell phone. You know, the kind where when I pulled it out people would be like . .. awesome! However, that was wrong of me and I have repented. The Lord has humbled me and blessed me with a free phone! Not quite what I was thinking. . . I think people do think it is awesome though. . .Awesome as in like "hey, what kid did you steal that from" haha

I didn't get any pictures with President or at the temple yesterday when we did a session. . . nor did I get pictures today at Divisoria. Divisoria was like little China with so many things to buy. I know where I will be before I go home! Benjie and I joked that if Chelsea was there she would "mahihilo" or would get dizzy from all the things to buy! I bought a couple things that I think Chelsea would like . . .I wanted to buy the whole place for her! I need to get everyone's size so I can buy you some stuff. . .

Dedication to the Artists!

2007-05-16T06:15:00.001-07:00

Yesterday I had the opportunity to travel over to Trafalgar Square where the famous National Museum is. It was amazing! My friends and I went in the museum and were able to see hundreds of paintings and many were created by Picasso, Monet, Da Vinci, and Van Gogh!!! It was incredible!! Seeing these famous paintings in a photo do not do the real thing justice! After the museum my friends and I decided we would attempt to climb a corner of this large statue . . . at this corner there was a lion. I was at first a little afraid of climbing up because it was so high up and my legs are so short which makes it difficult to climb a flat wall; however, after my friends Brittlyn and Whitney got up I couldnot resist! It looked like so much fun! I finally climbed up and then my friend Becca followed my lead (she too has short legs) and it was hilarious to watch her climb up. She warned me that she had no body strength but I did not believe her until we had to have a random lady push her up the wall. On top of it, the lady pushing her up did not even speak english which made the situation that much more funny! It was the hardest I have ever laughed since I have gotten to London!
We ended the day yesterday with seeing a play called "Landscape with Weapon." It was one the best shows I have ever seen in my life (and believe me, I have seen a lot). It was performed at the National Theatre which is the best theatre in London! The show was composed of an ensemble of 4 actors all of which have been in numerous movies. The main character was the actor Tom Hollander and he played Mr. Collins in "Pride and Prejudice" and played Cutler Beckett in all three "Pirates of the Carribean!" He is an amazing actor!!! The other three actors have been in movies such as "Notting Hill" and "The Holiday."
Tonight I will be traveling for two hours over to the church building to teach the Young Women's (which consists of three girls) how to play the piano. It was very difficult to convince them to come to young mutual but I think I convinced them when I told them I would make cookies.
Well this is turning out to be a little too long and I am sure nobody has the patience or time to read more . . . hehe Love you all!

Mabuhay!

2007-05-15T08:07:00.000-07:00

Today was my first day at the office. . .well, my first real day. I did about 7 hours of which I am really proud. I spent a lot of time doing cold calls which was not the most enjoying thing in the world. All I got the whole time was the same thing. The phone system is so much different here. I guess as a missionary that is just something that I didn't ever get exposure to. I was calling big companies like KFC, McDonalds and others and I was getting funky ring tones and it was hard to even get a number that worked! I got a lot of fax numbers and emails to send a proposal letter to. We will see if I can get any answers from that. ..I guess I will just have to call them in another week and try the whole cycle again. I am really excited about it though. . . I think there is a lot of promise.

After that we headed to the new Craniomaxial Facial Center for Mabuhay. It was really far away but I was surprised at how nice it is. Very well done! They have moved these patients to a four-story building where they let doctors put their office in the bottom in exchange for free surgeries. It only cost 9 million to build! It was a really nice place I will have to get some pictures. . .

I am amazed at how great this place is. I still love the people so much! They are the greatest people on the earth! I have never felt dangered here and am having a great time! It is different to not be totally absorbed and constantly talking to everyone but I am getting used to it. I feel like everyone treats me better here when I am not a missionary. . . it is really wierd.

We played chess this afternoon and I got killed. I think there have been 4 grand masters that have come from here. . .Benjie might be the next Grand Master to come from the Philippines! We played tennis tonight and it was nice to not almost pass out from heat stroke! I played really well. . . Not quite good enough to beat Benj but it is coming back. . .

Election Day

2007-05-14T09:51:00.000-07:00

Well I made it through the day! Election day is over. . . The Philippines Senatorial race was today as well as mayor and a few other positions. Things went well. Before Benj and I played tennis this morning we went to a local high school where the elections were being held. Since my arrival I have heard that things were going to be crazy here and to be careful. I was expecting to go to the school and take a quick picture and get out of there with haste. When I got there despite the over abundance of political posters there weren't very many people. It was surprisingly organized!

We came back and cleaned and Benj made some great lunch and we were off for the church so Benj could count tithing money. I went in a room, cranked the AC and did some work.

I accomplished another thing tonight that I always wanted to do. I went to the movies! Let me just tell you. . .besides all the other reasons I have to live here permanently, this would single handedly be the reason for me to come back! It was amazing! First of all, we paid about 4 dollars for both of us to see the movie. That is half of what I would pay back home for just me! We walked in the theater and it was immaculate! Cleaner than any theater I have ever been in before. The seats were extremely comfortable. The theater was empty! It had air con and the sound was very good! It was amazing! However, the movie was saw was another issue. It was good. .. .a bit violent in my opinion but good. It is called The Condemned. I didn't know what the rating was. They had R-13 by the movie. . .I asked what the rating was if it was R or PG13 . . .she just said that you have to be older than 13 to go in. . . I'm not sure if they even have real ratings here!

Mother's Day

2007-05-13T22:33:00.000-07:00

Well, I am not quite sure how this is supposed to work exactly so I am just going to make my entry for the other day today. . .on top of that with the time change I am not sure how this is going to turn out. .

Mother's day was great! I got to go back to my first area. It was a branch then but is huge now! It was how I remembered it. . not a whole lot had changed. Except there are so many kids now! It seemed like everyone Benjie would tell me about when I got here had a kid! It is kind of sad because the majority that I saw were out of wedlock. . . I sat by a member that we would always visit, Jemmylin. I told her that I missed her sizzling plate cooking and she got my number and invited me over. That is a good thing . . except that doesn't help them from all calling me fat! You wouldn't believe it! It seems like everyone tells me how fat I have gotten. I don't think this would be the best place for a self concious person to go if you didn't understand the culture. Actually, after watching some television shows and talking to some people, chubby is in! I should be a star here then!

After church there was a lot of confusion but finally we got a taxi and headed to Makati to pick up my teacher and to go to eat lunch with the Manila mission President. His daughter was in our Tagalog class as she served a "mini-mission" last year. Well, she is back with another friend to do another. They are just serving for 4 months. It was good to see them and to be with a family for Mother's day. It kept me from missing my Mother (and mother-to-be in August) so much. The house was amazing and had Air Con!! We ate a nice American meal and then headed to the other room and had some musical numbers! They even made me sing! It was a good time!

It has been confirmed to me once again how small this world is! Benjie has an office here in his home (good for me as I get free DSL and calls to California!). He is working for a guy that came back to start a business here and got married. Come to find out Ryan Robertson's brother Ian went to school with my friends Nathan and Michael. It has been cool meeting him and his wife. I even got to witness the blessing of their first child, Bethany. What a small world!

After lunch someone came to pick up Nanay (my teacher) and we went to Greenbelt to eat. It is amazing to me how amazing the Philippines is when you are not a missionary. . .I don't mean that to sound like I didn't like the mission but it seems like maybe our mission isn't as financially sound and thus as interesting to visit as Manila is. The food was amazing and I finally got to try Sweet rice and mangoes. It was really good. . .it may just be that the mangoes here are out of this world though! I have eaten at least 2 mangoes everyday that I have been here!

Well. . .this is getting long. I feel very blessed to be here. I am grateful for my Mother and for the freedom that we enjoy in the US. I am so blessed to be here with people that are so loving and understanding! Filipinos are amazing! I love this place!

Chelsea in London!

2007-05-13T14:42:00.000-07:00

Although the pain of being so far away from my fiance is torturous I am still having the time of life up here in London! Everything is just amazing! I feel like I have seen so much yet I am not even half way through my list of things to do and see up here! The past two days have been the best out of the whole Study Abroad! On Friday I went with my girlfriends to Buckingham Palace where we saw the famous "Changing of the Guards." After that incredible event my friends and I made our way over to Candem Town where there is the famous market full of more clothes than ever imagineable! And on top of it they are dirt cheap! And you can talk down the prices! I ended up getting two beautiful dresses! Nearby the market there stood a French Crepe stand and my friend Whitney and I could not resist getting one to split since they smelled like heaven! We got a crepe filled with fattening Nutella and Bananas! It was delicious! We cannot wait to go back there and get another one . . . We ended our day with a trip to Notting Hill for window shopping and a detour to the Borough Market . . . this market was amazing! It had stands from all different nationalities making their specialty foods! Whitney and I could not resist the home made french truffles! It was just like the movie Chocolat!
Well that is all for now . . .
I am experiencing so much in such a small amount of time but at the end of the day what I look forward to most is being married to Matthew this August . . .

Chelsea is my love

2007-05-12T09:19:00.000-07:00

That is all!

Well. . .I just started this blog as a kind of gift to you . . . to us!

I love you so much and I am excited for our lives coming together. I thought this would be cool to keep track of our lives and for other people to see what we are up to. I hope you like it and feel free to make changes and post as much as you would like!

And you probably though I didn't email you tonight. . . hehe! Have a great day and I will try to wake up early to talk to you!

I posted on this already and you can read what my day was all about. . I love you!

Pampanga

2007-05-12T08:10:00.000-07:00

So I finally got to do it. . . For about 8 months of my mission I was assigned in Bulacan, an area about an hour from Manila. While it is a rural area, there was always greener grass on the other side so to speak. While I loved being in Bulacan, I always heard that Pampanga on the other side was awesome. Well, today I finally was able to go to Pampanga. I went with Benjie to visit his family who are conveniently located in Pampanga. It was absolutely amazing. This place is awesome! I love being back here in the Philippines so much! Anyways, I digress. . .We had a hard time getting a bus as there were a ton of people going home for this three day weekend. Senatorial elections are on Monday so all of the offices are closed. Instead of waiting in the heat (about 90 degrees) in the long line, we just decided to ride the bus without seats. Standing for 2 hours isn't that bad, right? Well, we got on and it so happened that there was a seat! I let Benjie have it because he has been so good to me and hasn't slept for the past 4 weeks or so! I wonder sometimes about him. . .haha!

The ride was enjoyable. I got the normal stares that any white person would get here and got to talk to a few people. They are always so surprised when I start speaking Tagalog to them! I love it! We got to Pampanga and after riding a Jeepney and a tricycle for another 45 minutes or so we made it! We got some coconut drinks. . .two each and had a great day! Benjie's adopted family spent the whole day playing Tongits and gambling. We had food and I got to visit with the family. I never got to ride a carabou (water buffalo) and milk it! We are going to drink the milk in the morning. . .I was worried when Benjie said they took the milk inside to get rid of the dumi. . .Dumi here has two meanings you see. . .Dirt or Fecal matter. I am still not sure which one he was talking about! hehe

After a long day we finally got back after sitting in traffic forever! It seems like the traffic is worse than I remember. I think this is because the increase in the economy here and because of all the people traveling this weekend with elections coming up. . .The political campaigns here are funny. They take popular songs and turn them into songs about them. Vans drive around playing the songs and they make entertaining commercials. There are flyers everywhere and campaign commercials on constantly! I think it is great!

More to follow. . .